Published in June 05, 2022 | Author Dr. Bhavna Barmi and team
Preparing to welcome a baby into your life is an exciting and difficult time. Don’t be surprised if you’re going through some emotional turmoil right now.
When you’re pregnant, it’s natural to worry about what’s to come. Many people are anxious right now, especially if they know there is going to be a significant change that they cannot fully prepare for or control.
Also, pregnancy can be stressful in itself. You may be anxious about prenatal tests, as well as coping with hormonal and physical changes, especially if you’ve had a negative experience in the past, such as a miscarriage. Pregnancy can increase the risk of having a mental health problem for these reasons. Pregnancy provides a wide range of emotions, not all of which are positive. You are not alone if you are worried. Worry is typical, especially when a woman is pregnant for the first time or has an unplanned pregnancy. It is even more difficult if you suffer from sadness or anxiety.
Start taking care of yourself as much as you can for the sake of your health and that of your baby. Eat healthy, exercise regularly, get plenty of rest, and take your prenatal vitamins. Talk to someone about how you feel if you’re scared, upset, or nervous, and know when to get help.
What can be the feelings?
• Mood swings are common during pregnancy. However, if you are often nervous or depressed, it could be a sign of something more serious. The stress of being pregnant, physical changes during pregnancy, and everyday worries can add up.
• Depression or anxiety may be present in some pregnant women. Depression is defined as sadness, melancholy, or irritability that lasts for weeks or months. Before becoming pregnant, some women may experience depression. It can also start during pregnancy for a variety of reasons, such as if a woman is unhappy with her pregnancy or if she is under a lot of stress at work or at home.
Pregnant women can have other mental health problems, such as:
• Bipolar disorder (episodes of low-energy depression and high-energy mania)
• PTSD.
• Panic attacks (sudden and intense physical responses with an unexplained, paralyzing sense of fear).
• CDOs.
• Eating disorders (such as bulimia or anorexia nervosa).
It is important to treat mental health problems during pregnancy. Mothers who are depressed, anxious, or have another problem may not get the medical care they need. They may not take care of themselves or use drugs and alcohol during pregnancy. All of these things can harm a growing baby.
If you have a mental health problem, talk to your doctor so you can get the help you need during and after your pregnancy.
All pregnant moms and their partners need to keep track of their mental health and wellness. Watch for signs that you may need help and be prepared to respond if needed.
While pregnancy has its ups and downs, if you’ve been feeling persistently unpleasant (for example, unhappy or worried) for more than two weeks, you should see a doctor. See your doctor if:
• Your ability to function properly is impaired by negative thoughts and feelings.
• You are losing interest, feeling sad or unable to cope, all of which are indicators of depression.
• Is nervous or worried most of the time, if not all of the time.
• Begins to have panic episodes or exhibits obsessive or compulsive behaviors.
Learn ways to cope
Everyone experiences some level of stress. Stress can have a negative impact on your health and your baby’s brain development. When you’re anxious, your baby’s environment is also stressed, which can affect her development.
Learning stress management techniques will help you through your pregnancy and promote a healthy environment for your unborn baby. It will also help you develop coping strategies to deal with the challenges of parenting on a daily basis. Strategies may include:
• Take time each day to relax, rest, and get enough sleep (a nap if needed) to help you manage stress and fluctuating emotions.
• Be realistic in your expectations of yourself.
• Tell someone you trust about your thoughts and feelings, like your partner, family, friends, or a health care provider.
• Eat well and at regular intervals.
• Stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water.
• Take a walk outside – clean air can make you feel more energetic.
• Seek help from others.
• Take advantage of offers of help, including child care or food.
• Make plans to spend time with a friend.
• Make friends with your neighbors
• Join a prenatal support group.
• Talk to your spiritual advisor to connect with your spiritual self.
• Do something unique for yourself every day. It might also help if you talk to other pregnant people, as they might understand what you’re going through. Prenatal classes, fitness classes, online forums, and other such social activities are great places to meet other pregnant women; You can take advantage of that support after your baby is born by signing up for parenting programs.
• Get away from the computer.
• Don’t go into medicine like a Google doctor! While research is beneficial, too much can lead to unwanted anxiety. It’s stressful enough dealing with the barrage of information from your constant mother-in-law; there’s no need to add to the pressure by spending hours on the internet studying all the possibilities that could go wrong.
• Self-Care: Take the time to take care of your most important asset – yourself! After all, a healthy mother equals a healthy child. Every day, set aside time to clear your mind by doing something you enjoy.
• Take a break: Take some time with yourself and relax whenever possible, no matter how hard it is because you may not be able to go back to sleep after the baby is born. Whether it’s going to bed early, taking breaks during the day, having lunch with the girls, or taking a vacation, make sure you’re stress-free and well-rested.
• Eat nutritious food – Eating nutritious food is not only helpful for you and your child, it also makes you feel wonderful. You can get a dose of iron by eating a bowl of oatmeal.
• Exercise will release endophins, which will help you feel less stressed and anxious. Exercising during pregnancy has many benefits, including relieving back pain, preventing constipation, and maintaining a healthy weight.
• It is advised not to do too much work. Don’t commit to working long hours or doing a lot of work. Pay attention to your body and be aware of your limitations. To avoid unnecessary stress and worry, try to organize your daily tasks. Also, try to avoid big changes, like moving, because adjusting to having a baby is hard enough.
• Create a strong support system: Having a strong support system during pregnancy is essential. It could be your partner, parent, friends, or a medical professional. Who you include in your support network is determined by how much you trust them and how much you interact with them. Having supportive people in your life can make a big difference in your ability to deal with stress, worry, and negative emotions.
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