NEW DELHI: Valentine’s Day is an exciting time for many of us. It is the time when we express our feelings of love, compassion, gratitude and affection. Expressing your excitement to your ‘special someone’ in just one day can seem impossible. Valentine’s Day can also become a source of stress for people. The pressure of planning the perfect day, getting the perfect gift, wearing the perfect outfit while managing work, chores, and other responsibilities can take a toll on mental health. Here are some tips to help you make this Valentine’s Day special without the stress and anxiety.
Share your expectations with your partner
Discussing your expectations with your partner can be daunting. It can help your partner better understand what makes you happy and avoid miscommunication. A hot air balloon ride may sound romantic to one person, but it can be terrifying to someone who has a fear of heights. Clearly communicating your expectations will help build a better path for the future. You and your partner can also start having conversations about finances, time, and emotional well-being.
make realistic plans
Often the idea of what Valentine’s Day should look like comes from movies, books, or other media. But, they may not be realistic. It puts a lot of pressure on trying to make things fantastic or perfect. Sure, it’s fun to plan surprises and date nights, but remember that things may not always go as planned. Instead, focus on giving your Valentine your attention, time, and love this year.
show your appreciation
In relationships, we sometimes end up taking our partner for granted. We may not mean to do so, and it is not intentional. But there is a reason why we choose to be with them and spend Valentine’s Day with them. This year, make a special effort to notice and acknowledge the things your partner does for you. You can also show your appreciation through actions: giving her her favorite flowers, writing her a note, offering to do chores around the house, or giving her a massage. Valuing and appreciating your partners will help the relationship flourish.
try something new together
As you try to figure out how you and your partner can spend Valentine’s Day, give each other opportunities to learn and grow together. Take advantage of this time to learn or explore something new. Maybe you can sign up for a couples dance class, try making a new dish, explore museums in your city, or go on a field trip. Planning activities together can be a great way to keep your relationship vibrant.
Learn about each other’s love languages: What could be better than getting to know each other better on Valentine’s Day? Love languages is a concept explained by Dr. Gary Chapman. Love languages describe five general ways that romantic partners express and experience love and commitment. These love languages are words of affirmation, acts of service, physical contact, receiving gifts, and quality time. Take the time to explore what you and your partners love about languages. After all, each individual is different from each other, just like you and your partner. It is important to understand what is most important to your partner.
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